Romantic Questions for Couples

If you could paint a picture of our happiest memory, what would it look like?

What's a small, silly thing I do that you hope I never stop doing?

If our love had a scent, what would it be? (e.g., old books and fresh coffee, or rain on a summer evening)

What is a moment you felt a surge of love for me when we were just doing something ordinary?

Describe a future day you're dreaming of us having together in five years.

What is a strength you've discovered in yourself through our relationship?

If I were a song, which part of the song would I be—the verse, the chorus, or the bridge? And why?

What's a time you felt incredibly proud of me, even if you didn't say it?

If we could build a secret hideout anywhere in the world, where would it be and what would it look like?

In what small way can I make you feel more loved this week?

What's a lesson about love that you think we are learning together right now?

If you had to give me a “superlative” award in our relationship (e.g., “Best at…”), what would it be?

What is something you admire about the way I interact with the people I care about?

If we were to create a new holiday just for the two of us, what would we celebrate?

What is a simple, quiet moment with me that you treasure?

If you could hear my thoughts for just one minute, what would you hope to hear?

What's a cheesy romantic movie trope that you'd love for us to recreate?

How has your definition of “home” changed since you met me?

What is a quality in me that you find both infuriating and absolutely adorable?

If our relationship was a book, what would the title of the current chapter be?

What is a dream you have that you'd love for me to be a part of?

What is one of your favorite things about my smile?

If we could go on a road trip with no destination, what three songs would have to be on the playlist?

What is a time I supported you that meant the world to you?

If you could give me one piece of advice for my own happiness, what would it be?

What's a small, everyday challenge that you feel we conquer beautifully as a team?

If I could grant you one small, magical wish right now, what would you wish for?

What is a look I give you that makes you feel everything is going to be okay?

If you were to write a poem about me, what would the first line be?

What is a way I’ve made you feel more courageous?

If we had a signature dance move as a couple, what would it be?

What's a memory of us laughing that you can recall instantly?

What is something you're grateful to have learned from me?

If you could choose one of our inside jokes to put in a time capsule, which one would it be?

When you see me after a long day, what's the first thing you want to do?

This or That: A cozy night in or a fancy night out?

This or That: Spontaneous adventures or perfectly planned trips?

This or That: Hand-written love letters or sweet good morning texts?

This or That: Slow dancing in the living room or singing loudly together in the car?

This or That: A shared blanket or your own cozy space?

This or That: Stargazing in the quiet or watching a sunrise together?

This or That: Making a meal together or ordering from our favorite place?

This or That: A funny, playful compliment or a deep, heartfelt one?

This or That: Holding hands or arms linked?

This or That: A surprise gift or a shared experience?

This or That: Recreating our first date or inventing a new “first”?

This or That: A playlist of our songs or one perfect “our song”?

This or That: Whispering secrets or shouting our love from the rooftops?

This or That: A long hug or a quick, sweet kiss on the forehead?

This or That: Building a fort in the living room or a bonfire on the beach?

This or That: A day at the museum or a day hiking in nature?

Would you rather be able to see all our past memories, or get a glimpse of one happy day in our future?

Would you rather have a personal chef or a magical cleaning service for our home?

Would you rather spend a week in a secluded cabin with no internet, or a week exploring a bustling city?

Would you rather I bring you coffee in bed every morning or prepare your favorite snack every evening?

Would you rather have a movie made about our love story or a best-selling novel?

Would you rather we win the lottery or we both get our absolute dream jobs?

Would you rather have the power to fly together or be able to communicate with animals together?

Would you rather be known as the “funniest couple” or the “kindest couple”?

Would you rather have a wall in our home that shows a different favorite memory every day, or a garden that grows our favorite flowers year-round?

Would you rather be able to pause time for one perfect moment together, or be able to fast-forward through any argument?

Would you rather have a treehouse that looks like a castle or a boat that can sail anywhere?

Would you rather I write a song about you or paint a portrait of you?

Would you rather have a library of every book we've ever wanted to read, or a map that leads to a new adventure every weekend?

Would you rather be able to perfectly dance any style together, or sing any song in perfect harmony?

Would you rather have our story told by our best friends or by our (future) children?

Truth: A truth about you that I think is adorable is…

Truth: The moment I knew I was completely in love with you was when…

Truth: My favorite sound in the world is your…

Truth: A small thing you do that makes my whole day better is…

Truth: I feel most connected to you when we are…

Truth: A promise I want to make to our future selves is…

Truth: The silliest thing I love about us is…

Truth: I wouldn't trade the memory of… for anything.

Truth: You make me feel brave enough to…

Truth: My heart does a little flip when you…

Truth: The best part of waking up next to you is…

Truth: I knew we were a great team when…

Truth: A perfect date with you doesn't need anything more than…

Truth: If I could thank you for one thing right now, it would be for…

Truth: The world seems brighter after we…

If our relationship was a flavor of ice cream, what would be the main flavor and what would be the surprise swirl-ins?

What's a “us against the world” moment we've shared?

If you could dedicate a star to me, what would you name it?

What's a non-physical trait of mine that you find the most attractive?

If we were a team of superheroes, what would our team name be and what would our powers be?

What's a simple, everyday sound that reminds you of me?

If you could create a custom-made candle that smells like “us,” what scents would be in it?

What is a piece of our history that you would put in a museum?

If I had a personal theme song that played when I entered a room, what would it be?

What is a small, unspoken way you show me you love me?

If our love story was a constellation, what would it look like?

What's a piece of advice you think our future selves would give us right now?

What's a weird food combination that you think we should try together?

If you could give our relationship a tagline, what would it be?

What's a fictional character that reminds you of me and why?

If our laughter had a shape, what would it be?

What is a simple task that feels like an adventure when we do it together?

If you could give me a key to any place (real or imaginary), where would it lead?

What is a part of my personality that you feel you've helped to unlock?

If we had to describe our love using only three words, what would they be?